A Theology of Humor

Christianity is serious; it is not grim.

“A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” Proverbs 17:22

Knock, knock. . .     Just kidding.

Humor is usually regarded as unserious, which is one of its best disguises. The devil, one suspects, understands jokes only as weapons; bureaucrats understand them as risks; school boards understand them as disciplinary matters. Christianity should understand them better. Humor is not merely entertainment. It is one of the ways a fallen world is made bearable, intelligible, and occasionally ridiculous enough to repent.

Humor is not merely decoration. It is not just what happens after the serious people have finished talking and the uncle with opinions has begun his third story. Almost everything that makes us laugh begins with something going wrong. A banana peel, a pompous man, a misplaced word, a social embarrassment, a theological argument on Facebook. A humiliation becomes a story told twenty years later at dinner, by which time the disaster has been domesticated into anecdote.

Humor and art follow the same broad pattern as redemption: something bad is turned into something good. A lost love becomes a painting. A tragic death inspires a written masterpiece. This is not redemption in the saving sense. Salvation comes only through Jesus Christ. A joke does not atone for sin. A limerick will not open the gates of heaven, though many poets have tried worse strategies. But humor does follow the shape of redemption. It takes what is broken, embarrassing, foolish, or painful, and by a strange act of imagination turns it toward fellowship, truth, and light.

In that sense, humor is on our side.

Of course, humor does not remove pain. It domesticates it. It takes the vicious dog of embarrassment and makes it wear a hat and sunglasses while you take its picture. The Christian doctrine of creation gives us permission to see the world as meaningful. The Christian doctrine of the fall gives us permission to see it as absurd.

It also leads to empathy. Observational humor is funny because it proves that, for all our quirks, we are not so different from everyone else. We have all said “You too” when a waiter says, “Enjoy your meal.” We have all practiced arguments in the shower, defeating imaginary opponents who were courteous enough to use exactly the lines we assigned them. We have all apologized to furniture after walking into it. We have all saved tiny boxes, bags, cords, twist-ties, and obscure plastic fragments “just in case.”

“You too?” is one of the great human sentences, even when unspoken. Somewhere another adult is also lowering the car radio in order to see better. Somewhere another man has walked into a room and stood wondering what he came in for. Somewhere another woman has reread an email seven times, sent it, and immediately seen the typo. We all lose our keys, pretend to understand printer settings, and pull doors clearly labeled “push.”

Many setups even have the same punchline. “How do you know someone went to Harvard?” “How do you know someone is Italian?” “How do you know someone is vegan, a former Marine, Irish, a CrossFitter, or a homeschool parent?” The punchline to all: “because they tell you, over and over again.”

The joke works because pride is repetitive. Humor exposes this little liturgy of the self. We laugh because we recognize the type. We laugh harder because we recognize ourselves. Each of us has some badge we polish in public. Humor reminds us that our self-importance is on loan.

Scripture is far funnier than many Christians permit it to be. This is understandable. Religious people are often among its targets. The prophets mock idols that must be carried by the very people who worship them. Elijah mocks the prophets of Baal, suggesting that perhaps their god is busy, traveling, or indisposed (a polite way of saying using the bathroom). Jonah is almost a sacred comic novel: God tells him to head west across the desert and he immediately heads east across the sea. The world’s most successful prophet who is furious that his preaching works and then sulks for days. Scripture invented satire.

Jesus Himself used language with startling comic force. The line about straining at a gnat and swallowing a camel is not merely a memorable moral comparison. It is verbal slapstick. In Aramaic, the saying likely had the force of a pun: straining at a kemal (gnat in Aramaic) and swallowing a camel. The joke works because the sound is close and the image is preposterous. A man delicately filters out a tiny impurity, then manages to consume an entire unclean beast. It is hypocrisy drawn as a cartoon.

The camel through the eye of a needle works the same way. It seems to be a further exaggeration of a common saying that a rope cannot pass through the eye of a needle. Jesus improves the joke, as one would expect. A rope is impossible enough. A camel is better. This is theology by absurd image.

The plank and the speck are just as comic. A man with a beam sticking out of his eye volunteers to perform delicate eye surgery on his neighbor. This is not merely instruction; it is holy slapstick. Jesus could have said, “Avoid hypocrisy.” Instead he gives us a theological cartoon so perfect that it has lasted two thousand years. The hypocrite is not merely wrong. He is ridiculous.

Then there is Peter.

Peter is in the New Testament for courage, leadership, and comic relief. During the Transfiguration, heaven opens, Christ is revealed in glory, Moses and Elijah appear, and Peter responds by wanting to build booths for a tourist spot. The Bible, the inspired word of God, literally says he “did not know what he was saying.”

Then he tries to walk on water. He succeeds until he notices what he is doing. This is many of us in miniature. Faith carries him; self-awareness sinks him. It is hard not to think of Wile E. Coyote sprinting off a cliff, remaining suspended for one glorious moment, looking down, discovering physics, and then dropping.

But the comedy is tender. Peter is not ridiculed from a distance. He is loved. His absurdity is not the opposite of grace; it is one of the places grace finds him. The man who sinks will be lifted. The man who speaks foolishly on the mountain will later strengthen his brothers. Peter is funny because he is human, and hopeful because he is redeemed.

This distinction matters. Christian humor is not contempt. Contempt laughs from above. Christian humor laughs from within. It says, “There we are.” It does not flatten moral distinctions. Sin is still sin. Evil is still evil. But it refuses the satanic seriousness that treats every absurdity as final evidence for despair. The Christian can laugh at human foolishness because foolishness is not the deepest truth about man. Redemption is deeper still.

C. S. Lewis is useful here. In The Screwtape Letters, he distinguishes several kinds of laughter: joy, fun, the joke proper, and flippancy. Joy is the laughter of abundance, reunion, and delight. It is dangerous to hell because it suggests that reality is gift. Fun is ordinary play, harmless nonsense, the sheer froth of being alive. It is what children understand before adults ruin it with planning. The joke proper arises from incongruity: two things suddenly seen together in a way that startles the mind.

Flippancy is the counterfeit. It is not real humor so much as the assumption that a joke has already been made. It treats serious things as ridiculous without having done the work of showing why. Flippancy is the smirk where laughter should be. It is cheap because it costs nothing. One need not understand courage, chastity, sacrifice, reverence, or prayer; one need only imply that all of them are faintly embarrassing. It is the adolescent in the back row.

This explains why some humor enlarges the soul and some shrinks it. Even a dirty joke is not automatically corrupt; the moral danger comes when laughter becomes an excuse to leer, degrade, or dwell in lust. The question is not merely, “Did people laugh?” Hyenas laugh. The question is, “What did the laughter train us to love?”

That question applies to all humor. Does it increase charity or contempt? Does it tell the truth or hide from it? Does it humble pride or merely humiliate the weak? Does it make sin look small, or make goodness look stupid? Does it enlarge the soul, or shrink it into a clever little knot?

The best humor makes us more truthful and less vain. It lets us admit what pride conceals. It says: yes, we are ridiculous; no, we are not worthless. It allows confession without despair. This is why self-deprecating humor can be healthy when it is honest and proportionate. It is a way of beating pride to the microphone. But even there we must be careful. Some self-deprecation is only vanity wearing a fake mustache. “I’m the worst,” said often enough, can be another way of asking everyone to disagree.

Humor is not only gentle. It can also be a weapon, and sometimes it should be. And here we reach the bracing question of mockery.

Can we mock sin? Yes, sometimes we must. Sin is not only wicked; it is stupid. This point has been badly neglected. Sin often presents itself as sophistication, passion, freedom, authenticity, courage, or self-expression. But it is actually idiotic. Sin is a man setting fire to his pants because his knees feel cold or curing dandruff by decapitation.

There is a sentimental idea that all moral instruction must sound like a pamphlet in a doctor’s office. “Please consider making healthier choices.” “Substance use may have negative outcomes.” “Gambling can become problematic.”

Some moral instruction proceeds by scolding: Do not do this. Do not do that. This is for the very young, and church committees. But there is another kind, more memorable and more effective: ridicule. Sin should be made to look as ugly, foolish, and suicidal as it is.

If someone drinks alcohol, we can say that it is as sensible as performing your own cataract surgery, with a carpet knife. The lottery is a special tax on people who cannot do math.

Smoking near the entrance of a store is a small public declaration that the smoker has no regard for anyone else. A phony little cough as you pass is not uncharitable. It is community theater.

Tattoos offer their own lesson. Never ask about someone’s tattoo unless you want to hear the longest and most boring story. The only thing duller than the ink is the explanation. “This one represents my journey.” Of course it does. Another excuse to talk about yourself.

This may sound harsh. Good. Sin has benefited too long from flattering lighting. But Jesus was gentle with the repentant and savage toward hypocrisy. The prophets did not merely disagree with idols. They made them look absurd.

Mockery has a moral use when it reveals the true shape of vice. Pride wants to look majestic; humor makes it look like a peacock arguing with a mirror. Lust wants to look passionate; humor shows it as a man trading his soul for ten minutes and a browser history. Greed wants to look prudent; humor shows it as a dragon sleeping on gift cards. Gluttony wants to look festive; humor shows it as a hostage crisis conducted by pastry. Sloth wants to look restful; humor shows it as a corpse with a Disney Plus account.

But the blade must be aimed correctly. Mock sin, not weakness. Mock vanity, not poverty. Mock cruelty, not suffering. Mock the addiction, not the addict trying to crawl out of it. Mock the foolishness of the act, not the image of God in the actor.

There is a proper brutality in moral humor. It should make evil look cheap. It should make temptation less glamorous. One reason people fall into sin is that sin knows how to market itself. It calls slavery freedom, decay authenticity, cowardice self-care, vanity identity, and despair realism. Humor tears down the billboard. It says, “Look again. That glamorous vice is just a man skydiving with a knapsack.”

Addiction is the opposite of humor. Even when the object is not sinful in itself, like coffee, video games, scrolling, work, news, shopping, or the sacred rite of checking email every four minutes, addiction follows the pattern of sin. It obeys the law of diminishing returns. You put more and more into it and get less and less out. The first video game is recreation. The twelfth hour is a blinking cave where time goes to die.

Sin is a fraud. It overpromises and underdelivers. It arrives dressed as liberation and leaves behind receipts, shame, boredom, and sometimes a court date. It is the worst salesman in the world, and yet it keeps closing.

Humor helps us see the con.

Christian humor is therefore not a retreat from seriousness. It is one of seriousness’s sharper instruments. The man who cannot laugh at sin may not yet hate it enough. The man who cannot laugh at himself may not yet know himself enough. The man who cannot laugh at anything may have mistaken solemnity for holiness, which is a common but dreary heresy.

The Christian test of humor is finally theological. Does it tell the truth? Does it humble pride? Does it protect the weak? Does it expose evil? Does it increase charity? Does it make sin look as stupid as it is?

Christianity is serious. It is not grim. The difference is important. Grimness is what happens when seriousness loses faith. The gospel is serious because sin is real, judgment is real, grace is real, and Christ is risen. But because Christ is risen, the universe is not finally tragic. The joke, in the end, is on death.

Laughter is not an enemy of faith; it is one of faith’s allies.

It reminds us that the devil is not funny, he is only ridiculous.

The trick is knowing where the line is. Christian humor may be sharp, earthy, and even a little dangerous. It may mock sin until sin looks as stupid as it actually is. It may point and laugh at vanity, drunkenness, lust, greed, and hypocrisy. It may know that somewhere, someone is waving back at a stranger who is actually waving to the person behind him.

But it should also know when to stop. After all, restraint is sometimes the punchline.

There once was a woman named Britt,
Who stepped in a pile of . . .

Never mind.

 

 

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